It's hard to believe that a year ago, Vic and I were welcoming our first born into the world. We went from this:
Aiden at One Month
To This!!! My Little Bug at a Year Old!!
As in all cultures, the first birthday is a big one. In Korean tradition, you celebrate a child's first year of life with a Dol ceremony. We thought long and hard about whether or not we wanted to have one, but decided that we would. My mom would have wanted us to and what a great way to show some of my Korean culture to my son.
All I have to say is, planning a Dol is like planning a small wedding. There were invitations, flowers, decorations, favors, food, and entertainment. But I think that in the end it was a success! It was wonderful to have all of the most important people in our lives there to celebrate Aiden's first year... and our first year of parenting!!
We held the Dol in the King Farm Community Clubhouse, right in my brother's neighborhood. It was a gorgeous room and centrally located between our friends and family in Baltimore and Virginia. The weather forecast called for a wintery mix the night before the party, and for those of you that know me, you know I was freaking out! Luckily, it was only a light dusting that added to the beauty of the day!
I decided to make the theme Tigers and Jungle Animals.
Here are some pictures of the party!
The Dol head table. I tried to have all the main elements of the tradition Dol table.
Fruit: Represents future children and a happy life for the entire family
Red Bean Cake: Symbolizes good health and safety
White Rice Cake: Symbolizes purity and honesty
Dol Go Ims (The Towers): Are not usually part of a traditional Dol table, but I added them in for a modern flare and because they are circular, which represents a life without hardship
One of the towers has a tiger to represent Aiden's Chinese Zodiac... hence the theme. =)
And just as an aside... I made those towers. Thank goodness for hot glue, dried beans, Daddy, Uncle Rez and Aunt Jennifer!!
Here a picture of Aiden's birthday cake! Top cake courtesy of Giant, cupcakes made by me. =) I found this idea online with a different theme and sent a picture to a cake maker. After receiving a ridiculous quote, I realized I could make the whole thing for a fraction of the cost! The kids at the party were able to enjoy the cupcakes and we purchased another larger cake for the adults. Yay Costco! And yay for Etsy where I found the fondant pieces!
As our favor, we had a candy bar. Those chocolate bars in the middle were from my brother. and personalized with a Happy Birthday to Aiden! Thanks, Uncle Brian!
We also gave out traditional boxes of duk, which is Korean rice cake. Supposedly, the sharing of rice cake with family and friends is said to bring good fortune to the one providing it. And it's delish!
We also were able to have a balloon twister and face painter for part of the party. She really did an amazing job and is very talented! I wish I got some shots of some of
her balloon art, Elizabeth's "Angry Bird" really doesn't showcase it well.. but cute
nonetheless... this bird flies!
The main event is the actual Doljabi where objects are laid in front of the child and they are encouraged to pick one. It is believed that whatever they pick is a predictor for their future. We made Aiden's into a little raffle, with everyone voting for what they thought he would go for.
Basketball: Professional Athlete
Money: Wealth
String: Long life
Calculator: Accountant (For Uncle Brian)
Stethoscope: Doctor
Book: Scholar
I displayed some pictures of Aiden throughout the room as a way to show people how much he has grown and changed over the last year. I love this one, which shows the pictures Vic and I took of Aiden on the 25th of every month in the same chair, next to the same teddy bear (I posted the one month and 12 month pictures at the start of this blog post). Shout out to my friend Faye for the idea, it was a great one! We'll hang this one in our new house!
Here's the birthday boy playing!
We love Uncle Brian!
Aiden in his traditional Korean Hanbok. Hehe, he looks like a little prince. I don't think he liked wearing it all that much, but he was a good sport and wore it for the doljabi event.
If you noticed in the previous picture, Aiden is wearing a gold pendant. Here's a close up of it. It's actually on loan from Uncle Brian. It's tradition to give children gold jewelry on their first birthday. This is the necklace my parents gave my brother at this Dol. Having Aiden wear it for his meant a lot to me and made me feel like my parents were there with us too.
Aiden did score some nice gold bling of his own! A BIG thank you to Grandma, Grandpa and Great Aunt Di Thu who gave Aiden beautiful gold rings!
Daddy laid out the items for the Doljabi. Can you tell which one Vic wanted Aiden to choose? No cheating Daddy!!!
So... what did Aiden pick??
The stethoscope! Hooray!!
(as another aside, despite popular belief... Mommy did not prep Aiden for this choice).
Aiden was so cute during the Doljabi. He initially went for the basketball (which is what I thought he would go for.. hey, it's big and bright!). But then he stopped, looked at each object, then went for the stethoscope. It was almost as if he thought to himself "hold up, this is my future I'm picking!!". Way to go Aiden!!!
Yummy yummy food in my tummy!! We had a great spread of both Korean and Vietnamese food. Thanks to Grandma and the rest of Vic's family for cooking up a storm all morning! Everyone raved how great everything was!
Of course we had to pay our respects to Aiden's Vietnamese side too! Here he is in his Ao Dai, the traditional first birthday outfit! I think Aiden liked it too!! He is too cute!
We love Grandma and Grandpa!
A big thanks to the best Aunts!! They were so helpful throughout the entire party. We are so blessed to be surrounded by such amazing family who love Aiden so much!
Happy birthday to Aiden!!!
Aiden is clean like his Mommy. He did not enjoy sticking his hands in the cake all that much. I'm sure that will pass though...
Us with some of my aunts and cousin from my Dad and Mom's side.
Aiden's party was so much fun. I was very proud of my little boy, he was amazingly good!!! We had a great time spending time with all our wonderful family and friends. A HUGE shout out to our posse (Mark, Josie, Rez, Jen, Brian, Joong and Sunmi) for helping us set up and clean up! There is no way we would have been able to do it without you!
After the big celebration, Vic and I were excited about spending some quality time with our little man on his actual birthday. We took Aiden to the Aquarium in Baltimore. I think he really enjoyed it! Here are some pics from the day:
Lunch at the Hard Rock Cafe
Aiden loved watching the bubbles!! Daddy says that Mommy looks more excited than Aiden in this picture... but I think we were equally happy here. =)
Aiden loved watching the fish swim by! He would reach up and tap the tank when one would get near.
The aquarium has an area that overlooks the inner harbor. It was a gorgeous day on the 25th, so we enjoyed soaking up some rays.
The jellyfish exhibit was our favorite part!!
What an amazing year it has been... and how quickly it has flown by! Aiden has brought so much joy and happiness into our lives, we wonder what we did with our time before him!? He has grown into such a sweet and handsome little boy.
We cannot wait to see what the next year will bring!
Mommy and Daddy love you VERY much, Aiden!!
